Staying active during the summer helps keep my daughter mobile

How I encourage my 13-year-old to move her body safely

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by Elizabeth Hamilton |

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Oh, those lazy days of summer are here. Unless I’m your mom and you have Friedreich’s ataxia (FA). In that case, it’s game on.

Years ago, I noticed a yearly pattern with our daughter Amelia, who’s now 13. Long before she was diagnosed with FA at age 8, I observed that her mobility and coordination decreased as the months grew colder. She’d struggle more with walking and balancing. She’d lose skills that would slowly, and sometimes only partly, return when the weather warmed up and she became more active.

I’ve tried to combat that with winter activities, such as trips to the gym or indoor pools that are seemingly never warm enough. Despite my best efforts, however, the decline still happened. It often felt like walking upstream. I was putting in a lot of effort, but without gaining ground.

Now I view summer as an opportunity to stay active and reclaim what the winter took. Here’s how we’re keeping busy while being mindful of the potentially dangerous heat.

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How Friedreich’s ataxia fits into my summer goals

How we’re staying active

We swim — a lot. In the pool, Amelia feels free. She doesn’t worry about falling, and she can build her leg muscles, which don’t get as much use since she began using a wheelchair more frequently. We have some exercises from her physical and occupational therapists that she sometimes does in the pool, but mostly, she enjoys goofing around with her cousins, forming memories while getting exercise. We have a pool pass and go as often as we can.

One thing that’s helped me is having a dedicated bag for the pool filled with snacks, clean beach towels, and all the other supplies we need. Getting ready and out the door has become more complicated now that Amelia uses a wheelchair more often, so anything I can do to simplify my life is worthwhile.

On rainy days, we shop until we drop — literally. Sometimes we take Amelia to the store, and with a caregiver on either side, she uses a store cart to balance as she travels around. For Amelia, walking is a big deal. It takes a lot of effort, so staying motivated is essential. When she walks around the grocery store with us, we allow her to pick out some treats that we’d usually decline. The same is true when we visit other markets or a favorite art supply shop. Amelia pushes herself until her legs definitely need a break. It’s amazing how far one can move when crafts are involved!

We also bike when we can. Years ago, we invested in a customized trike for Amelia, one that allowed her feet to reach the pedals. Now she can keep up with us when we bike around the neighborhood, and the sense of freedom she feels is priceless.

I do try to maintain a balance. I want to encourage Amelia to keep her body moving, but I also know there’s something wonderful about sleeping in during the summer. So sometimes, I let things slide. But on those other days? Amelia can slide right on out of bed and get ready to move.


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Ive Biemer avatar

Ive Biemer

Thank you so much for sharing this with us. I have a freshly diagnosed daughter - just turned 13 and I feel so lonely with this diagnose. We have not found anyone to talk to and exchange informations. My girl sounds a bit like yours. She also refuses proper exercise as she feels always like she is the worst participant. She thinks she can’t do anything good and that kills motivation. I would love to read more about how you felt as a mother with all this. How you manage to stay positive for your girl and how your daughter manages with the knowledge and all what time as a teenager brings with it. ♥️ thank you so much. Ive

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Paul Konanz

Hello, Ive!

Let me tell you, you are not alone! You just have not yet plugged into the FAmily! :-) I am not on every internet platform but I would believe that there is an FA presence on all of them. I do confess a bias toward FAPG, FA Parents Group, an email group that supports, informs, discusses and alerts parents of FA and Ataxia. Our conversations are wide reaching and in-depth. http://www.faparents.org/fapg/MailingList/

I am well-versed in FA and if I don't know I have connections that will know.

Exercise and feeling like the worst participant. Exercising is like playing golf. In golf you play against yourself, not other people. The objective is to improve yourself, not "beat" someone else. :-)

Here is a map of FAPG families. Are you close to anyone? http://www.faparents.org/fapg/OurFamilies/Map/

Hope is in FA research! Tape this to your refrigerator. https://www.curefa.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/Pipeline-Updated-April-22-2025.pdf

Hugs to you and your family!

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Katrina Hood avatar

Katrina Hood

If you have Facebook there are a number of groups to join. FAwesome Mums is a great one. There is also a Friedreich’s Ataxia Parent group.
My son was diagnosed coming up on just about a year ago, at age 16. We started noticing symptoms around 12-13 but it took 4 years for a diagnosis.

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