I’ve Learned to Face My Reality While Hoping for an FA Cure
Following that thought, I swallowed the pill laid out for me and rushed to the bathroom to finish getting ready for school. As a teenager, I was pretty ambivalent. I took whatever medicine my parents gave me. Maybe it was a potential treatment, perhaps not. I didn’t expect to get much benefit from medications either way.
As my genetic disorder, Friedreich’s ataxia (FA), continues to progress, and I become increasingly dependent on others, my belief that “I know I will never get to that stage” diminishes. I have to face the uncomfortable reality that no amount of devoted faith, healthy regimens, or stubbornness can stave off the progression of FA.
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When I received my diagnosis, I was a preteen in the mid-1990s. There was no FA community for me to join — and if I’m honest, I wouldn’t have sought one out. Following the establishment of the Friedreich’s Ataxia Research Alliance (FARA) in 1996, I was terrified to see others with FA, especially those whose disease progression was further along than mine. I am ashamed to admit that.
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I believed that with my faith and attentiveness to my health my speech would never become slurred and I wouldn’t need a walking aid in the future.
I write this almost 20 years later, sitting in a wheelchair. Is it a sign of defeat? Does it demonstrate that I am a victim, set on a predetermined path by my genetic disorder?
I’ve come to realize that although hope or faith can’t defeat the juggernaut of FA, whether or not I live as a victim of this genetic disorder is entirely up to me.
I remember sitting at a table following a free lunch during my college years. A visiting Christian minister sat next to me and asked to hear my story. I relayed it to him in its entirety, from the insecurity I felt at my diagnosis, to my determination I would find a cure. I told him about the vitamins and medications I’d tried, and healing rituals I participated in, mostly Christian, some nondenominational. I had been dunked in frigid water in France and visited a cabin in New York owned by a minister with healing powers he’d gained following a near-death experience.
I had regularly taken Coenzyme Q10, Buspar (buspirone), idebenone, and other medications and supplements. I’d traveled to a chapel in rural Mexico known for its miracles and tried an antismoking medication with anecdotal benefits for FA patients. I’d been prayed over by priests, ministers, friends, and strangers. I approached all of these potential treatments with great hope. And each of them left me feeling disappointed and hollow. Friedreich’s ataxia was still there.
I learned to face my reality, not with defeat, but with perseverance. I began to wish for a better quality of life in the present, and not only a cure in the future.
As I spoke, the pastor next to me rested his clenched fists on the table and breathed a deep sigh. His youthful curly hair and slight frame demonstrated his inexperience.
He looked straight into my eyes. I was expecting him to offer prayers or words of encouragement. Instead, he said, sounding as if he was about to deliver a profound revelation, “Well, I know one thing. If I had FA, God would not allow me to be in a wheelchair.”
Forget that noise.
One thing I’ve learned from the awesome FA community that I am proud to have come to know is that no matter whether we believe in God, science, both, or neither, what’s important is our behavior in the here and now. A person’s character is revealed as he waits for a miracle — even as he acknowledges that it may never come.
In the meantime, I will do what I can to raise awareness and encourage the research of FA.
As I wait with bated breath for a cure or treatment of FA, I acknowledge that throughout the hopes and disappointments I’ve encountered, I’m still here. And I hope that counts for something.
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